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9 Stupid Myths About Bisexuals

You’ve probably heard a lot of stereotypes/jokes about bisexuality, the bastard stepchild of sexual orientations. Most people can’t even agree on a definition of bisexuality, which has led to a lot of confusion, angst and reality shows starring Tila Tequila.

Ironically, part of the reason bisexuality gets a bad rap and why so few people openly identify as such, is because it’s associated with many negative cultural connotations.

For our purposes, I’ll define a bisexual as someone who is drawn to emotional and/or sexual relationships with different genders, although terms relating to bisexuality run the gamut and can include descriptors such as “pansexual,” “queer,” “ambisexual,” “omni-sexual,” and “Larry King.”

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In this article, I aim to dispel the biggest bisexual misconceptions and stereotypes, shed light on some new ones, and help to document a sexual identity that is often shrugged off as a “phase,” a “gateway,” “homosexuality lite” or “college.”

  1. Bisexuals are sluts. Okay, I’ll be the first to admit that I would probably f*ck a jar of Nutella if it looked at me the right way, but just because bisexuals technically have more options for sexual partners doesn’t mean they are more promiscuous. As a friend wrote to me in an email recently, “I’m glad I’m not bisexual because then I’d be rejected by men and women.” Naturally, there are bisexuals who are non-monogamous, and who want to sow their oats into as many Quakers as possible, but the same could be said for every sexual orientation. Perhaps the truer statement is we all have the potential to be slutty, regardless of which way we swing.

Bisexual women only do it to turn straight guys on. We call these ladies beersexuals, and yes, they do exist, but not usually outside of college campuses or David Schwimmer parties. There are also, of course, the Madonna/Britney Spears make-outs of the world, though that was more of a straight-up gay-for-pay publicity stunt than to give America a collective stiffy. Katy Perry pulled the same stunt with her “I Kissed A Girl” song, which is so tepid it’s downright laughable. Lyrics paraphrased: “I kissed a girl, but I was drunk! And I have a boyfriend! And it’s human nature, but I’m still really rebellious!”

Pair that with her song against feminine men, “UR So Gay” and you’ve got a recipe for an Out magazine award waiting to happen. (I’m not kidding. She was “Person of the Year” in 2009.) Barring celebrity bisexuals and Girls Gone Wild girls though, I can assure you that most bisexual chicks are highly annoyed by leering dudes who catcall, whistle, or are generally all up in their biznass when they are courting another lady.

  1. Bisexuals are indecisive or confused. A gay man I met at a bar once told me that bisexuals “just can’t make up their minds.” And I replied, “I don’t have a problem making up my mind. For instance, I think you’re an asshole.” Derogatory statements like the above are all too common to a bisexual’s ears. And yes, it comes from both the gay and straight communities, which sometimes think bisexuals are either cowardly or are taking advantage of straight privilege. However, being attracted to more than one gender is about as likely to make you “indecisive” as watching a lot of musical theater is likely to turn you gay. Also, isn’t it odd that it’s always the gays and straights who are confused about bisexuality, and not bisexuals themselves?
  1. Bisexuality is a cop-out or a phase. It’s always scary to come out of the closet for the first time, despite what you may have seen on Bravo, but coming out as bisexual is essentially declaring that you don’t have a preference. It’s a revolving closet, so it’s somewhat understandable that people tend to view bisexuality as a stepping stone to a more “valid” or “realized” sexual identity. And sometimes this is indeed the case. Elton John comes to mind. But this rationale is just another way people try to devalue bisexuality as an identity, the same tactic used to devalue homosexuality, or being transgender, etc. A lot of thought, turmoil and struggle goes into the decision to come out, and to dismiss it so readily is deliberately insulting.

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  1. Everybody is bisexual. Not even close. This misconception started with Freud, was bolstered by Kinsey, and now seems to be spread predominantly through Yahoo! forums. However, there are a lot more people acting on bisexual desires than there are who identify as such. We call these people “Republican senators.”

While not everyone is bisexual, here’s a small smattering of bi celebs who are commonly mistaken or purposefully misconstrued as card-carrying homos and heteros: Sappho (yes, the Greek poster-dyke), Kurt Cobain, James Dean, Ani DiFranco, Walt Whitman, Anais Nin, Frida Kahlo, Eleanor Roosevelt, Alexander the Great, Tchaikovsky, Michael Stipe, Lord Byron, Emily Dickinson, Andy Dick, Herman Melville, Eve Ensler, Judy Garland, Georgia O’Keeffe (who was Frida’s lover for a time), Marlon Brando, Cary Grant, Billie Holiday, Angelina Jolie, Janis Joplin, David Bowie, Jack Kerouac, Kristanna Loken (from Terminator 3 and the one who burned Shane’s house down in Season 4 of The L Word), Madonna, Elton John, Amanda Palmer (from the Dresden Dolls), Cole Porter, Anthony Rapp (Rent), Virginia Woolf, Patti Smith, Mick Jagger and on and on.

  1. Nobody is bisexual. As one of my bisexual male friends said recently, “When people say bisexual men don’t exist, it cracks me up. Would you like to hook me up to some wires and machines and have me watch both gay and straight porn to see that both will increase my heart rate and give me a hard-on?” When I told him that study had actually been done, which supposedly proved that bisexual men were just “liars,” he quipped, “I’ve done that study on my own a few times. I liked the results.”

The study, but perhaps more significantly the New York Times article where it was showcased, claimed, “You’re either straight, gay or lying.” The study based its conclusions on whether self-described bisexual men responded physically to visual sexual stimuli, i.e. porn. The problem with the study (one of many problems documented by the National Gay and Lesbian Taskforce, among others) is that it bases sexual orientation on arousal alone.

On the flip side, also curiously in a New York Times article, straight women were found to be physically aroused by everything from masturbation to naked ladies to couples doing it, even to bonobo chimps getting it on. What didn’t turn these women on, you ask? Pictures of naked men. Yet, no one seemed to call these women lying rug munchers in denial, did they?

  1. Bisexuals can never be happy in a monogamous relationship. Let the record show that bisexuals are just as likely to fail at monogamy as the rest of you infidels! According to Peggy Vaughan, author of The Monogamy Myth, statistics show that 40 percent of women and 60 percent of men have affairs at least once in their marriages. Since these people aren’t always married to each other, that means about 80 percent of all marriages are “touched” by adultery.

But being bisexual doesn’t make you any more likely to cheat than being straight or gay does. Nor does it mean that bisexuals are destined to be miserable without a variety of genitalia at their disposal. Just as in other sexual relationships, being partnered with one person doesn’t suddenly negate your attraction to other people. The same goes for bisexuals in monogamous relationships.

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  1. Bisexuals love threesomes! This is one that’s both really irritating and understandable at the same time. Sure, who doesn’t want to have their cake and eat their pussy too from time to time? But the culturally pervasive hetero dude fantasy of the threesome-as-Holy-Grail has turned a delightful, occasional sexytime experience into an annoying bombardment of cold-call propositions, usually from strangers or drunks. There was a time last year when every week, I would get a threesome proposition online from (often) the dude-half of a straight couple asking if I would like to bone them.

Rarely did these propositions even contain a perfunctory “Hello, you look nice in pinstripes” or any other kind of humanizing email chatter. Instead, bisexuals are thought of as the Jiffy Lubes of sexual experience, always ready and available to help you with your fluids at the drop of an un-proofread email. To be fair, one guy didn’t just ask me and my then-girlfriend for a threeway; he asked us to bear his children and then also offered to pay us $10 to do data entry. Also, while swinging and orgy parties do seem to be on the rise (there are roughly 3,000 clubs worldwide) preference for group sex will always be in the minority. Remember that the next time you try to slur your way into a bisexual’s pants at dollar draught night.

  1. Bisexuals love puns. This one is true. Whoever said “puns are the lowest form of humor” was probably not getting laid regularly. Puns are a form of wordplay that exists in all languages. They’re cheeky, exploit the multiple meanings of words, and are the verbal equivalent of a double take. Come again, you ask? Many bisexuals love to pun because they operate on the assumption that nothing has a fixed meaning, much like sexual identity.

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Take the term “hasbien” for example. This is used as a mildly derisive name for lesbians who have gone back to dating men. Instead of viewing hasbiens as traitors, or policing others for the sake of political correctness, punsters decided not to go bi the book and instead created a humorous renaming of bisexuality in the word hasbien.

Another reason bisexuals like puns is because the word bi is infinitely pun-able. Take a quick look at these bi publications: Seattle Women’s Bisexual Network newsletter, “North Bi Northwest”; “BiAngles,” a bisexual zine; “BiCEP,” the Bisexual Committee Engaging in Politics; “LeBiDo,” and my favorite, the Queer Nation Bi Caucus, “UBIQUITOUS” (Uppity Bi Queers United in Their Overtly Unconventional Sexuality).

7 Tips for Taking Bi Dating from the Internet to the Real World

One of the most popular ways to meet other Bi women is on the internet. So once you “meet” someone in cyberspace, what is the next step? Here are some suggestions to help you safely and successfully make the transition from an internet connection to a “real world” dating relationship.

  1. Choose sites that cater to bisexual women, if that’s what you are looking for. It helps you avoid the awkwardness involved in bringing up the fact that you’re bi once the sparks start to fly and you feel chemistry with the person.
  1. Be honest. This is the first step to your success. Honesty is still the best policy. No one likes to go through the effort of developing an online relationship with someone, only to find out when they meet face to face, that the other person has been lying about something.

Make sure your profile spells out what type of relationship you want and whether you are involved with someone else or married. A current photo in your profile portrait is helpful, but you can send a private message to the other girl, with a current photo as an attachment, if you like. You can also refer her to your photo gallery.

  1. Voice verify once you decide you want to meet. Exchange phone numbers and speak to each other on the phone. Find out about the other person by asking a lot of questions. You are still in the stage where you don’t really know this person, so be cautious but friendly.
  1. Be safe. Once you decide to go ahead with meeting the other girl for the first time, make sure you tell someone else about the meeting. Make the date in a public place in the middle of the day, where there are a lot of other people. Lunch at the local mall restaurant is a good example. If you arrive and see the person you’re meeting is not what they portrayed themselves to be, you can just walk away.

A friend of mine asked her husband to drive her to the parking lot of a mall restaurant where she had arranged a first date with another bi girl. They had agreed over the phone to meet outside in front of the restaurant. Seeing the girl standing outside the restaurant from the safety of the car allowed my friend to check to see if the person was genuine. It also alleviated the husband’s worry that she might be in danger. My friend was able to feel comfortable proceeding to meet the girl, and go into the restaurant with her.

Don’t ever compromise your safety when it comes to meeting someone for the first time. If all goes well on your first date, plan your second date on neutral ground as well. If you have any doubts or feel uncomfortable with the person, there’s no reason you can’t just tell them, “I’m sorry, this isn’t working for me.” And then just get up and leave.

  1. Be realistic. Not all matches are made in heaven. It may take a while to meet someone you really feel comfortable with, have chemistry with, and who works with your current lifestyle situation. If you decide you don’t have that sexual chemistry with the person, you might end up being friends anyway. Some of us are lucky. One friend of mine met a few girls and then one girl she met, it was just an instant mutual attraction they had for each other. Bang! They just loved everything about each other and even the husband relationship clicked.  My point is, don’t settle for something that isn’t working for you. It’s better to tell the other girl at the beginning that you don’t think it’s going to work for you, then to string her along and get her hopes up.
  1. Be considerate. Remember that she’s balancing many aspects of her personal life to be with you. It’s not all about you. If you are in a relationship with a man, that further complicates the relationship. Talk about what each of you wants in the beginning and listen to her.
  1. Proceed with Caution. If you get passionate with her on the first date, for god sakes use protection! You really still don’t know each other that well, so err on the side of caution. No moment of passion is worth contracting an STD.

It’s normal to move forward with the relationship, if everything seems to be going fine, you feel chemistry with each other and have met once or twice. However, remember you met this person on the internet and it is possible to falsely represent yourself during the first few dates. So proceed with caution, until you really know this person. Don’t lend money, give credit card info, social security info, or anything else.

Bi Dating should be fun, exciting and safe. Be cautious and have fun.

7 Steps to Giving Great Oral Pleasure to a Woman

My lesbian friends are some of the luckiest women I know. They have told me many times that until I’ve received oral sexy from another woman, I haven’t really experienced it. They say that no one knows how to perform cunnilingus like another girl. I’m not sure about that, but I do know that over the years, some of the guys I’ve been with should have brought a road map. They had no clue what they were doing, and that wasn’t much fun for me.

So guys and ladies, if you’re not sure what to do down there, you had better read this article. If you haven’t made your partner’s toes curl and nipples harden because of your technique, you need to learn these seven steps to give great oral sex to a woman.

Step 1

Begin the session by kissing, stroking and fondling her whole body until she is very aroused. Yes, her whole body contains erogenous zones that need to be caressed and sensitized to begin with. Do not touch her labia or clitoris at all during this stage. Stay focused on getting her oohing and ahhing over the sensation of your touch. Once she’s excited, she can lay back and spread her legs with her knees up or spread like a “V” to allow you easy access to her genitals. Once she’s comfortable, kneel or lie between her legs in a comfortable position, with your hands free and your face up close to her genitals.

Step 2

Gently part her labia (lips) and while holding her lips open, lift the clitoral hood. If her clitoris is back inside of the hood, gently run your fingers along the sides of the hood to expose the clitoris.

Step 3

Wet your lips and lick the tissue along the sides, above and below the clitoris with long, broad and gentle tongue strokes. This area around the clitoris has hundreds of nerve endings that connect to the love button. For added variation, bring a mini massager and alternate it with your tongue.

Step 4

Experiment with your tongue strokes and pay particular attention to her responses. Vary the amount of pressure you apply as well as the speed of your licking. Her moans will tell you what she likes. If you can’t tell, just ask her what she likes best. Talk to her in a soothing, sensual tone.

Step 5

Put your lips around the sides of her clitoris and gently suck on the area. Start licking the surrounding tissue and then alternate between licking and light sucking actions.

Step 6

Try directly licking the clitoris to see if she likes it. Not all women like the intense stimulation from direct clitoral contact. If she likes it, start licking and use your hands to gently caress and rub other areas of her body. Pay attention to inner thighs and nipples. These are two common erogenous zones in women.

Step 7

Cover the entire clitoral shaft with your mouth. Gently suck and stroke her clitoris with your mouth and tongue. At this point, don’t move your mouth from her clitoris until she has reached orgasm. If you can, look up at her and make eye contact to show her how much you enjoy giving her pleasure.

As a woman, I have fond memories of guys who were great at performing cunnilingus. So if you want to give your partner great oral pleasure, I strongly suggest you try these oral techniques. I have experienced these exact moves and I love them! I’m sure the woman in your life will love them, too. When you give such intense pleasure to a woman, she will be more excited about you, have intense feelings towards you, feel cared for, wanted, sexy and ready to please you.

If you successfully master these seven techniques, you will have one satisfied, happy, sexually charged woman on your hands. What more could you ask for? Try it today or tonight and you’ll see what I mean. Forget about blowing in her ear to get her to follow you anywhere.

How to flirt with bisexual women?

flirt with womenAt times it is hard living as a bisexual mainly due to stigmatization. It is however not advisable to hide this since you will not be able to have a happy life. Though bisexuality has been accepted in several countries and communities, it is still not easy to lead a bisexual life due to the negative myths surrounding the sexual preference. There are some points that one can try out in order to enjoy bisexual dating and be happy with their choice. It is not easy to flirt with bi sexual women’s as they come to know, very well and hence it is not easy to convince them you need real time.

The most important point is being honest with those surrounding you on bisexual dating site. One should never be afraid to tell their friends or family on their sexual preference. Once they know that you are happy and want to be bisexual, they will be able to support you. Those that hide their sexual nature tend to show others that they are not confident with who they are. This is why some people tend to say that it is a phase. Apart from that, you will be able to have a happy love life instead of pretending to be someone you are not. If you are trying to fool around the women she will come to know the sixth sense is very good and hence it is very though to fool these people.

Go out on dates and mingle with other bisexuals on bisexual dating site. When you are able to get bisexual friends you will be able to have stronger self-confidence. The reason behind this is that you will accept the fact that, it is part of you. You will end up enjoying your sexual preference and in turn lead a happy life. Going out on date will enable you to experience what it means to be bisexual and make you avoid lying to your friends and family. Apart from this, you will be able to have fun and meet several people.

Plan group dates with your friends. Go out with your friends as a group regardless of their relationship preference. This will enable them to learn and appreciate you for your decision. It shows being bisexual is part of who you are. Once your friends and family get to accept this, you will be able to live a happy life as a bisexual. It will also be able to help you join both your bisexual and non-bisexual friends. In today’s twentieth century, where each individual has access to internet, people of today’s era consider internet as a reliable medium to find their romantic partner. Due to the increased usage of internet most of the youngsters today are ready to take support from online dating services. Humans from both the sexes happen to find difficulty when they start looking for a loved one for themselves. In order to do so, they look for support and help from others which often do not cater to be the best solution for any of them.

5 Ways to Tell She’s Attracted To You

If you are a bisexual woman and you are just coming out, you will discover that dating is a whole new experience from what you may be used to with men. One of the differences is in reading the signs that a woman is interested in you. This is important because, unlike heterosexual dating, you or the other woman will be responsible for initiating the date. No more waiting for the guy to take the initiative!

Like anything in life, this has its good and bad points. On the one hand, you don’t have to sweat out waiting to see if he will ask you out. On the other hand, you will experience all the anxiety and fear of rejection that men have traditionally had to put up with.

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Now, back to the subject of this article. You may think you know everything there is to know about female attraction, since you are a female. Well, maybe, but in our society you have only been conditioned to interact with men on this level, not women. So determining if a woman is interested in you may be more difficult than you think.

For one thing, men tend to be more overt. For another, if you are meeting a woman in a social context that is heterosexual (in other words, NOT in a gay bar or online dating site) you may not know if she is interested in you as a straight friend or as a lesbian love interest. Since 98% of the population is straight, guess what the odds are? Still, it does happen and you need to be able to figure it out! Here are some signs:

Frequency of contact: After your initial meeting, has this woman initiated contact with you? If you have seen her more than once, does she call you often to talk? Has she asked to see you again? In general, if a woman is interested in you, she will want to contact you and see you as much as possible!

When you do see this woman, what is her mood like? Does she smile a lot or even become giddy? Is she always extra happy to see you? Does she give you a big hug? Conversely, if you are unable to meet with her, does she seem unduly disappointed? Measure these mood reactions with those of friends you have had in the past. In other words, try to determine if her reactions seem more extreme than is typical.

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Alone or in a crowd? Does this woman prefer to see you with other friends or alone? A woman that is interested in you romantically will usually want to see you by yourself, rather than asking you to a party or on a “night out with the girls.”

Listen carefully to what she says. Does she tell you she likes you or really enjoys spending time with you? Does she express that the time goes so quickly when she is with you? If your woman friend doesn’t want the time you spend together to end and has regrets saying good-bye, that’s a sign! Does she offer to go with you when you have alternate plans, such as, “Oh, I have some grocery shopping to do, too. I’ll come with you.” What you are listening for is behavior that falls outside the norm.

Although this is a negative emotion, it is also a sign that a woman is attracted to you. Does she seem to be annoyed when you have other obligations or want to spend time with another friend? Does she feel slighted by your other obligations? it is important to note here that she may be jealous of your time away from her, rather than the actual person or obligation you are attending to!

One final word. A woman who is attracted to you may never have experienced these feelings before. She may be confused and afraid of these feelings. She may even be involved in a heterosexual relationship or married. Often times these feelings occur as a relationship progresses from acquaintance to “best friend.” With most women, feelings of attraction stop at “best friend,” but lesbians will continue to bond past that point into romantic love.

Tips On Finding The Perfect Bisexual Partner!

With the advancement of Internet and technology, the online dating websites have grown in multi-folds. There are different types of dating websites that can be found online. Most of them are designed by keeping in mind specific individuals like bi dating sites for bisexual singles, mature dating sites for mature singles over 50, herpes dating sites for singles with herpes, and many more. The main criteria of such dating websites are that they attract specific individuals, which makes them find the match easily.

Searching for a compatible companion through online dating websites is easier for bi singles and bi-curious singles as compared to finding them in the real world. Age, sex, or location is not a hindrance at all! You just need to be honest and patient while filling your credentials and searching for the perfect mate. As these websites have specific criteria, finding a like-minded match of your age is easy. However, if you are still sceptical about finding the right partner then read on these amazing tips that will help you to find the perfect bisexual partner:

  • Before registering for the dating website, don’t forget to read the reviews of the website by various users so that you are confident about the genuineness of the site.
  • Some sites allow the users to register for free of cost whereas others may charge a bit as their membership fees. So, check out the fees and hidden charges before becoming a member of the website.
  • Next step is to start by setting up an account on a couple of online dating websites that have numerous bisexual men and bisexual women.
  • Ensure that you read their terms of conditions and fill in the basic information like name, age, location, etc.
  • Always create a killer and impressive profile on the website as this information will help you to find the right partner. Moreover, an attractive profile will automatically impress other bisexualindividuals and they will contact you instantly.
  • Mention about your hobbies and characteristics accurately so that the individuals who message you have similar interests like yours.
  • In case the website requires you to fill in a questionnaire then be honest while doing it.
  • All dating websites let you upload several photos, so make sure that you put up some recent photos with smiling faces.
  • Once the registration process is over, start searching for matches that are like-minded.
  • You can either send an email to the match you have selected or start chatting with them online.
  • Try to contact several members at a time as everyone is not very responsive.
  • Most of the dating websites provide privacy options that let you keep your personal information hidden as well as the fact that you have visited someone else’s profile.
  • There are some dating review sites that even offer advice and tips to new members so that they can find a perfect companion quickly.

Whatever your age is, there are numerous bisexual dating websites and that will help you to meet bi partner of your age. By following the aforesaid tips, you will surely find a perfect match.

How to choose the best bisexual women dating sites

Bisexuality is a sexual orientation that brings emotions one might not have control over. When one discovers that they have this sexual orientation they should not get worried as to why such things are happening to them. This worry might come because it is not easy to get a bisexual woman. There is a solution to this because one can turn to bi curious dating or bisexual women dating sites , where women seeking for couples visit. It will therefore be important for them to know how to choose the best bisexual women dating sites. There are many dating sites, but you should select the best one based on your needs and your budget and this is a very important. Once you do that then it will be a well researched choice and that will make things much easier for one and all. There are many women, who are confused about making a choice. Also may land up selecting the wrong website and hence research is the key, you need to do the research in the right way, some important points about the same are given below kindly have a look, to make it easier for you.

This can be done as follows:

Survey various sites

There are very many dating sites, where you can find women looking for couples,  which are dedicated to serving those women with a bisexual sexual orientation. Before choosing a site that one will use, they should begin by surveying different sites which are accessible. Some of these sites might be able to serve women looking for couples while others might not. This is a very important thing, just do not go at one website and select it. You need to do the right kind of research and that will make things much easier for you.

This means that taking some time to survey those sites that are available will provide one with the most appropriate choice. The amount of information a person gets when they survey several sites is very much instrumental. It might make them to discover new things that they had not known before. You should know what they will offer and how effective it will be. Also is it based on your needs, and once you are completely satisfied then it will make the process much easier. There are lots of people who do not do this and regret later. So what are you waiting.

Try the online sites

There are high chances that a certain dating site for bisexual women can have attractive adverts only to discover that what is advertised does not exist. An women looking for couples should therefore take their time and try out the site. This trial will reveal to an individual the weaknesses and strengths a given site is having.

During the trial time a woman will be able to have a feel of what it entails to use such a website. Trying should be done before one fully commits to using the site. This will also open one’s mind in case they are part of.

Why to Avoid free Bisexual Dating Site?

free vs paidBisexual dating is not easy especially when one is looking for love. This is why it is important to be keen when choosing a dating site. There are mainly two types of sites, those that are free and those that one must pay to use the site. Though most people tend to opt for free sites, it is highly advisable to opt for the pay to use sites. There are several reasons behind this. Depends on your packet also, but paid websites are mostly better then the free ones and offer very good results.  There are different websites, which caters to the needs of different people and based on the need one can decide which is the best for them.

The most important reason as to why you should avoid free bisexual dating sites is to avoid fake profiles. Most people that opt to pay to use the services are serious about bisexual relationships. This means that you increase your chances of having a successful bisexual relationship. Apart from that, pay to use sites, tend to offer better services compared to free dating sites. But, there exists a problem should be solved: how to find a suitable bisexual online site?

Safety is the other reason as to why you should avoid free dating sites. Most of the free dating sites allow any individual to join without ensuring safety of their members. On the other hand, some pay to use sites tends to go the extra mile to screen their members. This ensures safety when going on dates and when using the site.

Some of the main factors that should be taken into consideration when choosing dating sites include;

  • Cost- there are some dating sites that charge a certain fee while there are others that are totally free. Though most people tend to opt for the free sites, this is not advisable. The main reason behind this is that most of the members may not be serious in finding a spouse. This is why it is advisable to opt for the paying sites. Ensure that the site is affordable depending on the variety of services they have to offer.
  • Type of site- as mentioned above there are some sites that mainly deal with certain types of relationships. It is advisable to choose a dating site that solely dwells on your dating preference. For instance, if one is bisexual it will be better to opt for bisexual dating sites. The major advantage of doing this is that you will be able to increase your chances of finding the perfect match.

So what are you waiting for, visit a good website, which will help you find someone good and has good service and even if it means paying something you should not worry about it. As if you do then you end up being alone and that is something you do not want, so what are you waiting for, just go ahead and start with your dating and have fun, at all times. Also you can access these websites on the mobile.

How to Get Fun From the Bisexual Dating?

get-funDating is all about fun and romance. If one feels that he or she is not getting one of the two the relationship, the relationship appears dull. This applies to all sorts of relationships from homosexuals to bisexuals. In bisexual dating it might seem hard to know how to have fun during the relationship especially if you met from bi websites. There are simple methods that one can try out in order to make dating fun. It depends what is your intention whether you are looking for serious dating or something just for fun. It all depends on your needs. But make sure your mind is very clear based on what your requirements are.

A group outing is the simplest method that one can try out in bisexual relationships. Visit a place that none of you has ever been to before and come up with your own exiting activities. This will enable to have fun as well as get to know each other better. Creating some fun memories is actually the simplest way of building a great relationship. Hence you should try your best to create some and once you do you can have a great time. This is the best part about things.

Changing the bedroom norm is the other factor that one may consider. Most people tend to think sex is all about intimacy but what they forget is that it should be fun. Having fun in the bedroom is really simple since it only needs some form of creativity. Simple things like role playing may help you change the bedroom norm. These are the two main ways that one may opt to se to make the bisexual relationship fun. It can be fun if you do it the right way and once done in the right way you can have a very good time.

Obviously you will select mobile device which you can keep in your pocket’s shirt. You can do bisexual dating even when you are travelling. So don’t you think it is an awesome idea to use a mobile device than a PC for bisexual dating? With a mobile device, you don’t need to sit at a particular place. You can easily share your current activities with your love relations. You can tell them where you are currently. You don’t need to wait for a suitable situation so that you can pick your PC and start a conversation. Connect with bisexual dating site whenever you want with your mobile device which is not possible with PC. Since most of these websites are accessible on the internet through the mobile phones things have become very simple. This is the best part about things. Hence if you have a good mobile phone with good quality internet connection then you can access these websites n the move without any issue that is the best part about it. So what are you waiting for, just go ahead and get yourself some good dating tips.

Bisexual: Build Some Confidence in Yourself

sexy beach coupleDating a new person is usually not a walk in the park especially when it comes to bisexual dating. This is why most people tend to opt for seeking partners online. What most people tend to forget is that even if you meet a person online you still have to meet them face to face. This means that you will have to face what you feared most about dating. This is why it is necessary to always build some self confidence. If you want to have a good time, with your mates go ahead and find your soul mate, if you want to get things done in the right way. But there are some things you should know about bisexual and bisexual dating.

One of the main reasons that most people tend to be nervous when meeting a person they met on a bi website is mainly because they lied on their profile. This is why it is important to be honest when creating your profile. With an honest profile you will have nothing to be afraid of when you finally meet, you loved one, just be sure you do things in the right way and once you take all the precautions then thing will be much easier. There are lots of people from all over the world who love online dating and if you are one of them , then you need not look any further.

Self confidence is highly important when it comes to the first date. It is always important to remember that no one is perfect. This means that just like the way you are nervous, your date might also be nervous. The best way that you can build confidence before or during the date is by aiming for fun. Once you aim to have fun during the date, you will end up being comfortable, free and actually fun to be with. Technology has changed the way people worked before. If you observe you will see that in each and every field of your life you are taking the benefits of technology. So if you select it to find a sex relationship then it is not a wrong way. Just look around you and see there is a big number of people who are happy and satisfied with their sex relationship which they find on a bisexual dating site. There are lots of people who have found their soul mates here on this website.

So if you are looking for a sex relationship on the bisexual site you are on the right route. In fact, you have taken a perfect decision. The small size of the mobile device makes it easy to carry it with you whether you are travelling or even if you are attending a party. But with your PC you become limited. PC is larger in size and you can’t handle it all the time while you can just put your mobile device in your pocket. Suppose you are travelling. What do you select for you a mobile device or a PC?